Why did you Trust that Bastard so much…?

Received a message from Yifa early in the morning

According to Yifa, during his short talk with that asshole, the first thing he told Yifa was that he met you yesterday for lunch, and you told him about the message that Mingyi and Edmund sent to you asking whether you have gotten your house and possible to help mingyi?!?

And you also told him about the conversations you had with Allan?!?

Why Em Yeu?!? Why did you tell him such things? Why did you trust this bastard so much, that you are willing to throw away these friends whom have been really worried about you and protecting you from this liar?!?

After everything he did to you and me…

All of us are confused now… just yesterday Thao told us that she tried to call you but it wasn’t a local dial tone, so she is guessing you must be in Vietnam. But today, this asshole said he just met you for lunch yesterday while you didn’t reply to any of us including your old friend Thao

Were you being threatened by him that you have no choice but to follow his words not to contact anyone else? Or are you trying to act friendly to him in order to get your money back?

Or you have misunderstood me and hate me so much that you want to cut off everybody whom you or Ah Ji thinks is on my side…?

Em Yeu… nobody is on my side. Everyone has their own eyes and judgement on who they can trust and believe. And none of them chose to believe that asshole, not because I have lied to them and make up stories to smear his name, but everyone has observed or had their own bad experiences with him…

And most importantly, everyone is worried about you now, cause it seems like you are still in the dark about what kind of person this bastard is.

He has always act like he is a good person, and he act like he cared about you like a good friend and brother. But he is purposely trying to ‘help’ you to gain your trust, so that he can make use of you or know your weakness to threaten for money.

Even his 20-30 years ‘friends’ know him so well, that none of them trust him anymore. The only reason why some of them remain in contact, is because he still owe them money till this day..

And he will never return them fully, cause he knows they will cut him off the moment he returned them all their money. Even William has been trying to get his money back for more than 10 years. Every time Ah Ji would return a bit, but come up with new reasons and excuses to borrow again. This bastard has owe almost every single ‘friend’ hundreds to thousands, but yet he can still go to KTV, drink and gamble like what he did to our money.

Did you know that last year in November, after you pass that bastard your 2 months salary and CPF, the 1st thing he did was to bring mingyi, wen Hao, yifa and Roy and treat them to KTV with call girls? He has kept this from me and you and it was only until recently when the guys told me about it.

So Em Yeu, if you are keeping in contact with him because you are hoping he will return you the money he owed you, don’t count on it. He may return you bit by bit, but he will never return you everything he owe you. He is just this type of person who make use of other people’s weakness and trust for his own benefit, and he has been doing that throughout his whole life. That’s why people whom known him for more than 10 years all gave up on him.

And some of these friends even supported what I’m doing right now, cause this asshole has never met someone like me who will retaliate against him after scamming us. I can let you meet up with them one day and let you hear for yourself the history of how Ah Ji has made use of his friends and cheated them for years.

The biggest question on our mind is, why did he purposely tell Yifa he has met you yesterday for lunch, and that you told him about mingyi, Edmund and Allan’s messages. Is he trying to make use of Yifa to spread the word that he and you are still in contact and on good terms, so that he can act like he is innocent against my accusations against him?

Because half of my accusations is the wrong he has done to you…

Em Yeu, it does not matter what wrong both of us think we have done to each other… why matters is no matter what wrong I think you did to me, or you think I have done to you, as long as we love each other, as long as we stay together, as long as we face them together, we definitely can find a way to overcome it together and not give other people with bad intentions to come between us and make use of us.

At least, that is what I believe. How about you Em Yeu…?

And the bad news is, Ah Ji also told Yifa he is going to return me the money, and act like he is a responsible person who returns what he owe. But he forgot that I am chasing after him not because of money, but because of what he has lied to us and how he has set us up for his benefit.

I can never forgive him for the hurt he has done to you and frame me for it

Now we are not sure whether that bastard or Thao is telling the truth. But one thing’s for sure is you have trusted this bastard enough to tell him about the messages.

Then Allan tell me, “Bro, we cannot keep quiet anymore. We need to let Duong know the truth, or else she will continue getting played by this guy. I know you didn’t want us to tell her the whole truth because you wanted to help her move on and not affect her family and life now, but if this continues, you may see she will get played out and hurt by this so-called ‘good Kor Kor’ or even move into her 257 house soon”

He continue saying, “We got no other choice already. She now doesn’t respond to us at all but continue to trust this guy. We don’t know all of the lies he has been feeding her till now, nor have any news about her now. We know you want to protect her. We know you want her to be able to move on with her reunited family because you think you can no longer spend time and money on her and care for her and the children anymore.”

Finally he suggested, “Why not we make a list of all the things that Ah Ji did and said, then send to her email? Till now she blocked you on everything but you have not tried email right? We just send it to her and let her know the whole truth, let her know that her salary and CPF came from you, let her know you are not the one lying to her, let her know that guy is the one behind everything that has happened. Let her decide what she want to believe.”

I hesitated for a long time, before I finally told Allan that I actually has this blog which I have used to “talk” to you every day. I have not told anyone about this blog till today. Cause I was saving it for the day where you realized the truth and talk to me again… I have been saving it for the day where you need me again… This blog records all my true feelings and everything that has happened since the video call before Christmas.

Allan then say, “ Then good! Just send to her and if anyone else knows about what you wrote on your blog, then we can be sure that she is not being played out by Ah Ji like you, but actually all along she is in cahoots with him. Just have to make sure you translate all to Vietnamese cause her English very private limited one”

But I’m still worried. What is Kenny saw that I have sent you an email? Will it create problem for you and stir up new shit for him to quarrel with u about? You have already told me to get out of your life that night. Did you say that in the fit of anger, or did you really want to throw me away ?

Allan finally said “Bro, you already did whatever you can for her sake le. You won’t know what is she thinking, or is she happy now if we don’t do anything. What’s the point of you keeping your promises and wait for her when she just continue not knowing the truth and keep on misunderstanding you? If she knows the truth already and still choose to throw you away after she know the truth, then you don’t have to blame yourself anymore and continue waiting for her like an idiot”

At this point Mingyi also add in “Ya lar, just let her know what exactly happened lar. Or else she continue let Ah Ji stay beside her and make use of her”

At this point, my mind is in a mess. I’m at a loss what should I do. Should I just tell you the truth of what Ah Ji did to us as well as how much I still love and missed you, or should I continue to wait quietly and pray that you are well and living happily with Kenny, and continue to let that bastard act like a good Kor Kor in front of you…

Em Yeu, what would you do if you are in my shoes…?